Why Alex Van Halen Won’t Speak to Sammy Hagar: A Rift Fueled by Tequila, Tunes & Time

Sammy Hagar has shed light on the emotional and business-laced silence that’s kept him and Alex Van Halen apart for over two decades. While fans have long speculated about the rift, Hagar’s latest reflections suggest it’s not just about music—it’s about money, resentment, and missed opportunities.

The tension appears to trace back to the Cabo Wabo tequila venture, once a joint project among the Van Halen members. When the brand faltered, Hagar stepped in, took ownership, and transformed it into a massive commercial success. That victory, however, may have stirred feelings of regret or jealousy within the band—especially for Alex, who reportedly walked away from the business just before it took off.

Years later, when Van Halen reunited for a tour in 2004, Hagar found himself under tight restrictions. Even subtle nods to Cabo Wabo—like wearing branded gear—were off-limits. It was a reminder that business and band politics were deeply entwined. And while Hagar kept moving forward, Alex seemed to withdraw further from public life and performance.

But business isn’t the only shadow cast over their estrangement. Hagar believes creative differences and emotional wounds play a role, too. As he continues to tour and keep the Van Halen legacy alive with Michael Anthony, Alex has remained silent and offstage. That absence, Hagar thinks, may be frustrating for the drummer—who doesn’t have a natural platform like a singer or a solo guitarist to reenter the scene.

Interestingly, Hagar’s dreams have also played a part in his reflections. In one vivid vision, he imagined confronting Alex, only to receive a cryptic response, implying that the real reason for their falling-out is still a mystery to him—even after all these years.

Despite the unanswered questions and long silence, Hagar says he’s come to terms with the distance. He isn’t pushing for reconciliation, nor does he harbor bitterness. Instead, he’s focusing on celebrating the music they once made together—and in doing so, he believes he’s keeping the Van Halen flame burning, even if the brotherhood has long since gone cold.